Drawn to the Warmth

      Maybe there are some who do not know what is love. However I believe there are many people who know what will make them feel warm inside and we are drawn to that warmth. We need warmth to make us feel comfortable. Where does this warmth come from? It comes from the feeling of connection, belonging and acceptance. It comes from our memories that make us feel good about ourselves. It comes from the people who welcome us into their lives and are happy to see us. It comes from our family and friends.
     We do not like to feel cold and alone on the inside. We need the warmth for our happiness. We will go to a place that will make us feel loved and accepted. We will avoid the coldness of rejection. Perhaps we cannot find people who will accept us and then we will turn to a temporary solution that will make us feel a little bit warm on the inside. Never the less we are all drawn to the warmth.
     Love is mostly shown by our actions rather than that our feelings. For example we may not feel like helping people however love demands that we help people. We may not feel like to forgive or to be kind but love tells us to both to forgive and be kind. What I am saying that actions of love may not always make you feel warm inside but is necessary to bring that warmth to others even though it may seem like a self-sacrifice to you. Because love can sometimes be a service of self-sacrificing rather than just a good warm feeling you may not always be drawn to express it in your life.
     Warmth is a big motivator in our life if it makes us feel good than we will do it. We must do things that may not always bring us a warm feeling but we will always look for it after the work is done. We are creatures of the warmth and not of the coldness. It is important that we find a place of warmth and comfort so that we can just relax and be happy.